People can be so ignorant at times. I hear them say “being gay is a choice”, they also sometimes ask “when did you turned gay?”. That just pisses me off. Fortunately for them, no one has said any of those ignorant comments to my face, otherwise I don’t know if I could control myself.
Though, people have asked me two persistent questions about my homosexuality, and those are:
How did you know you liked boys?
That’s an easy answer. I always respond with a question: “How did you know you liked girls?”, that’s if a guy is asking me, which usually is the case. I think girls are smarter than that to be asking that type of question. I knew I liked boys because as straight guys like boobies, I like dick. Simple as that.
When did you start being attractive to boys?
I started liking boys when you started liking girls. Easy as that. I was born gay, so it would be natural that I started liking boys just as everyone starts liking the opposite-sex.
To those people that say being gay is a choice, well, it may, if you agree that you being straight was a choice as well. But that doesn’t even make sense. You have no choice, you were born that way. You may choose to like something that doesn’t come natural to you and suffer for the rest of your life, but what good does that do?
A person does not have a say on it’s own sexual orientation.
Now, to all gay haters out there… let us be, and let us live in harmony, for goodness freaking sake!
The thing that I worry about, is that many gay people are afraid to come out and tell the world that they are gay. Me personally, I don’t give a fuck what anyone thinks about me being a homo. I can tell anyone I meet I am gay at first hand with no problem. That’s just the way I am. You have a problem with it? Well, that’s YOUR problem.
I love your opinion, its good your open about it, people try to cover up who they really are
It’s about time someone says it…..
I am rarely questioned about my sexuality, but when I am I explain that it feels similar to the hand you write with. It is what is most comfortable for you. Sure you can switch hands and try writing with the other, but it feels awkward and you don’t get very good results. Some people try to write with their non-dominant hand their whole lives by staying in the closet. I then also explain that sexuality is as minor as being left or right handed. It is just a very small part of who I am as a person and doesn’t define me overall. Does this make sense? It is easier to explain than to write out.